The teacher’s name is everywhere
It is unclear how true the above story is, but many people admit that there are more and more Parents are willing to spend money so that their children have “omnipotent” names that will change their destiny and receive many good things in the future.
Ms. Nguyen Kim Anh (30 years old An Khanh Hoai Duc Hanoi) is currently pregnant with her first son. In her free time, she often watches clips suggesting names for boys born in 2023 on social networking platforms. Clips with the same topic appear more and more. After hearing this, Ms. Kim Anh became even more confused and didn’t know which name to choose for her child.
She confided: “People believe that the name depends on the person. So I had to choose carefully before deciding what to name my child.”
After a while of wondering, Ms. Kim Anh decided to ask for advice from an “online numerology expert.” “. This “expert” shares that according to numerology, each letter will be compatible with 1 of 9 numbers from 1-9.
The date of birth will affect the leading number. of life, and the ability to study and career depends on the name.
If you want your child to “go on the right path” from the beginning, you should choose a name according to numerology so that he can study well in the future. career development, happiness and wealth.
According to this person, Ms. Kim Anh only needs to provide the full names of her parents, the names to avoid in the family, the date of birth, and the experts from the “research institute”. research” will analyze and give a beautiful name for your child.
To increase prestige, this person also sent a picture of a numerology center. However, to get the desired name Ms. Kim Anh has to pay at least 300,000 VND/name/baby.
In fact, the baby naming service is advertised online by many online teacher centers to collect money.
Many people have had to spend a large amount of money to ask people who are considered “experts” in the field of numerology and numerology to give advice at a small fee.
When giving birth twice, the responsibility of naming the child was given to the “teacher”
Do not choose to name the child after numerology, Ms. Pham Thu Hoai (in Thanh Xuan Hanoi) said that before giving birth to their first child, she and her husband consulted many people and received advice that they should wait for the child to have a birth date and time, then asking a horoscope is the most “standard.
Ms. Hoai shared because she wanted to give her son a suitable name so he could have a bright future family She spent 2 months looking for a horoscope teacher. After being introduced by an acquaintance, she decided to choose a “teacher” in Thai Binh.
The cost for this “service” is 10 million VND.
“I provide He gave the teacher the name and date of birth of the child’s parents. After carefully “seeing” the teacher gave us three suitable names for the family to choose from. We liked the name Khai Anh the best, so we chose the name This is for the child.
According to Ms. Hoai, she just asked the teacher to simply name the child according to the date and time of birth, so the cost is not too high. Many families want to look more closely based on the family tree’s direction of the father’s age mother… the cost is many times higher. “In general, the more requests, the more money you have to pay the teacher,” the young mother said.
Naming a child is always a problem for many families. Especially interested in young families. Hotly discussed on social networks, Ms. Thuy Duong shared: “I think when naming a child, priority should be given to choosing a beautiful meaning that is easy to say in Vietnamese as well as in English. If you have the opportunity to look up more Sino-Vietnamese words, the better. The name should be related to the parents’ names.
High expectations become illusions
Related to the naming story discussed with reporters Dan Tri Associate Professor. Dr. Pham Van Tinh, Director of the Center for Vietnamese Studies, said that in the past, Vietnamese people tended to give names associated with family wishes. For example, if parents want their children to study well and be smart, they often choose names like “Minh” Tue Tri…
If they want names related to beauty, parents often choose names of famous people. flower adjective denoting aesthetics… Some families give names related to beliefs to avoid misfortune. There are people who accept giving their children unusual names or crude names because they believe that the child will not be disturbed by ghosts or invisible forces.
According to Associate Professor Pham Van Tinh, the trend of naming according to beliefs Today’s threshold is no longer popular but is still chosen by many families. Many parents believe that the name affects the child. A child with a suitable beautiful name will have good fortune and bring good things to the family.
That’s why they are very picky when choosing a name. When they can’t take the initiative, they will ask “horoscope teachers” and theological experts to name their children safely.
“Actually, we can sympathize with the wishes of parents. However, nowadays this problem is becoming excessive, leading to objections and inadequacies that some people take advantage of for profit. Many people therefore exaggerate the function of the name “Assoc. Prof. Pham Van Tinh said.
According to this expert, the arguments about naming some people are actually contrary to common sense in life. Because a name is just a sign to identify a person.
A child with a beautiful name but whose parents do not educate him or study well cannot become a good person. For example, if a child’s name is “Thanh Cong” but he refuses to study, how can he be successful?
The name itself has meaning but it is not necessarily associated with that person’s qualities. A person named “Anh Dung” is not necessarily brave.
So we should just name it that way to satisfy the wishes of families as a way of expressing wishes and wishes for their children. The name should not be considered a sign that determines each person’s status or direction.
“The decisive thing still lies in the education of the family and society. If you do not study and cultivate, No child can be obedient and successful. If anyone believes that only relying on naming can bring wealth, money, and fame to their child, that is an illusion that goes against the rules of logic in life. Associate Professor emphasized.
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