Social networks were abuzz with a clip recording the scene of a man using a sharp knife to break into a clothing store in Gia Khanh town (Binh Xuyen district, Vinh Phuc) and threaten Ms. D.T.H (born 1986). .
When he saw Ms. H. trying on clothes, the subject used a sharp knife to threaten the victim, forcing her to have sex.
Ms. H. pretended to agree. But she tried to find a reason to delay by asking the green-bearded lover to wear a condom. Taking advantage of the subject’s lack of vigilance, she grabbed a sharp knife and called on the surrounding people to come and help capture the suspect. statue.
Tips to escape from rape
Evaluation of how the victim handled the situation in the above incident shared with Dan Tri Criminology expert Senior Lieutenant Colonel Dr. Dao Trung Hieu said that Ms. H. was quite quick and calm to save herself.
Requiring the subject to use condoms su is one of the escape tips to remember when unfortunately falling into a rape situation.
In addition to the above delay, according to Dr. Dao Trung Hieu, when women unfortunately fall into a rape situation, they need to calmly observe and find all solutions and not just ask for help because then all requests for help will become negative. So it’s meaningless in front of those who are burning with desire.
When being controlled, women should not waste their energy trying to fight because women are usually weaker than men. What you need to do is to be alert and observe Take advantage of all the subject’s loopholes to “counterattack”.
Rape cases are often caused by temporary impulsive actions when encountering favorable circumstances. If you are observant, you can still commit suicide. save yourself.
Specifically, if there are still people around, try to scream loudly for help This action will make the target afraid. run away.
In a situation where you are being controlled in a deserted place, instead of resisting, you need to calm down and pretend that you also want to “satisfy” by smiling in cooperation.</p >
You can “buy time” with sweet sayings like: “Let’s talk slowly.” Don’t scare me. Don’t worry, I will follow you… Reality has proven this approach. has an unexpected effect in prolonging the time to plan an escape.
Similar to Ms. H. in the above incident, the victims should convince the subject to wear a condom for “reasons”. I have gynecological diseases, dangerous sexually transmitted diseases such as genital warts, syphilis, gonorrhea, hepatitis B, HIV-AIDS… The subjects will often be discouraged because they do not want to contract dangerous diseases.< /p>
However, not all cases have condoms available at the scene. Therefore, the victim should suggest that the person go to the pharmacy to buy condoms. If the subject agrees, the opportunity to escape has come. In some cases, you can have a dialogue to find another “landing zone” or motel to find a chance to escape the rapist.
“If the above methods do not work, the victim should still Try to smile and have a gentle conversation, show interest and cooperate to gain the initiative to push the subject into a subjective state of body relaxation.
The intention to attack and kill the victim is therefore will also be destroyed, what the subjects want to achieve is sexual satisfaction, not the victim’s life.
If the victim does not act against them, but instead cooperates with them. will not harm his life.
It’s best to push the subject to the ground while you lie on top or push him to stand with his back against the wall… pretend to let you serve and then take advantage of every opportunity Subjective subjects to suddenly strike or hit important acupuncture points to escape” Dr. Dao Trung Hieu shared.
This expert believes that Women have the right to legitimate defense by attacking the lower body (testicles) and biting the neck area…
After attacking the target, they need to run away quickly to escape from the school If you are caught again and find it difficult to fight back, you can use the trick of pretending to be crazy, laughing, screaming, screaming, or rolling around and smearing your face.
This reaction may make the target angry. Many people were surprised and confused and gave up the idea of committing a crime.
In a dangerous situation where you cannot escape, you need to determine the goal of protecting your life when you are unable to escape It is necessary to remember the identifying characteristics and retain traces (semen, hair, blood, saliva, clothes, belongings) of the subject to report to the police and bring the subject to punishment before the law.
The psychology of “green-bearded lovers”
According to Dr. Dao Trung Hieu, sexual abuse cases of women and children have been occurring very complicatedly in recent years. This. Rapists often have pathological selfishness, strange psychological manifestations (possibly suffering from psychological diseases), and a depraved lifestyle, often visiting dark websites that value lust.< /p>
Most subjects know that having sexual intercourse against the victim’s will is against the law and is punished, but due to the influence of alcohol, stimulants or obsession with sex movies, desire arises. I woke up and lost all reason so I wanted sexual satisfaction at any cost.
To protect themselves against the risk of sexual assault, women need to determine: Always be conscious of preserving their dignity and safety. Create a healthy, purposeful lifestyle for yourself; Dress properly and have a dignified demeanor; not easy-going in relationships; Say no to bad people’s invitations. In addition, always be aware of the risks that may occur to you to prepare yourself to deal with dangerous situations to protect yourself; Don’t put yourself in situations that easily lead to crime.
Women need to minimize traveling alone at night through deserted places and areas with few passersby. like the road last night at a construction site, fields and mountains… If you have a job that requires you to travel to those dangerous areas in dark and deserted conditions… always be alert and prepared. attitude to deal with situations when they arise.
When approaching dangerous, deserted areas, you need to observe the road. If you see someone going in the same direction who can be trusted, go at the same speed as them or follow closely behind to pass. go through dangerous places.
Be on high alert when going to a strange man’s residence or places you have never been to before. Similarly, you should absolutely not meet and interact with strangers in sensitive private places such as his room or hotel room…
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