Singer Hoang Bach: “Many people feel sorry that I got married early”

For more than 20 years in the arts, singer Hoang Bach has been loved by the audience through songs such as: Story of a lonely guy, Sunlight at the end of the sky, Touching glory… Besides that , he also makes many people admire him when he has a happy family.

Hoang Bach and former model Thanh Thao married in 2006 until now the couple The couple has 3 children (2 boys and 1 girl). On social networks as well as in real life, every time they appear together or mention Hoang Bach’s wife, they are not afraid to show their respect and love.

“I am grateful to the woman who brought her child to me”

Hoang Bach has just released the MV “Crossing the Sea” for his wife. Surely the birth circumstances of this song are very special?

– Over the Sea was written right when my youngest child was born 3 years ago. Only now have I been able to complete it properly because it contains a lot of my emotions. Women who have experienced childbirth will realize that this song not only describes a process but also an understanding.

In the past, I learned a lot of good things from my father. . However, one thing is that my mother really likes love words, but my father doesn’t say them often. I understand that women really like to hear sweet words and like to be pampered, so I learned from experience for myself. Every time I get to say “thank you” to my woman is a happy thing. My team counted up to 14 times the sentence “thank you” appeared in the song Crossing the Sea. 

< em>There are 3 children, but it wasn’t until the third child that he accompanied his wife during the “labor process”. How did you feel at that time?

– The feeling of welcoming your child into the world was very different from what I imagined, both confused, nervous and explosive. It interrupted a process of my anxiety since my wife became pregnant. At that moment, I felt grateful to the woman who brought her child to me.

Each child born is an answer to the questions I once asked. The first baby answers the question why do I exist in this life. The second baby was born during the period when I had my first solo products. The birth of my youngest friend showed me that life is very magical, every moment has a different magic.

So when deciding to have a vasectomy for family planning, did Hoang Bach hesitate in case he later changed his mind and wanted to have more children?

– Few people know that initially I only wanted one child even though the children came as a gift and I happily welcomed them. I was born in a family with many brothers and I am also the “youngest” but still very loved. However, raising a child is very difficult and requires a lot of responsibility and finances. My youngest child was born at a time when I was struggling with my career, so I was also worried. But then the birth of my children also let me know that with love, everything can be done.

In recent years, when Hoang Bach is mentioned, people remember the image of a person The perfect family man forgets that Hoang Bach is a singer. What do you think about this review?

– Many people look at me and regret that if I don’t create early family now background music had a Hoang Bach is much more creative and has more “worldly quality”. But I think for a family-oriented person like me, this is what I like and I chose.

Honestly, I already have the necessary awards. I also have songs that resonate. I also have songs that adults and children alike know. I couldn’t be more greedy.

At the end of the day, hearing the laughter of my mother’s wife and children is what makes me happy. The family’s aura is partly covering the artist’s aura. To me life is a choice. I chose to follow that path. If I say I don’t shine enough in music, it’s because I’m not talented enough.

What is the difference between Hoang Bach himself now and 20 years ago?

– I realized I am more realistic with each product. Professional experience is also different. By my side, I now have many friends to support and help me, unlike in the past when I almost only worked alone.

After many years of working in this profession, I understand that my strength is my strength. connect. Plus, I no longer try to succeed at all costs like I used to. The important thing is that I still do my job with a positive, enthusiastic spirit.

I prioritize work but I prioritize family most of all. Now I feel the most valuable time is spent with my family. Even though I can’t slack off at work, I no longer have the ambition to appear how many times a month and go to how many shows. Everyone needs money, everyone needs work, but everyone must always harmonize everything.

Many people judge that each of Hoang Bach’s musical products brings a humane value. Is this your biggest goal when you release a product?

– Since I was studying at the Conservatory of Music, I have always thought that I must become a good person before I want to convey anything. whatever. In life, everything that exists has its value, including sadness and pain. I also tried writing and singing sad music, but it wasn’t very sad but just funny. When I sing happy music, I see that people like it more and I feel more comfortable. My human nature is positive and cheerful, which is also what I want to contribute to the audience.

“I used to be afraid that my children would be affected because they are the children of artists”

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As a famous singer, Hoang Bach, does he intend for his children to pursue art?

– In my family there is no bullying. pressure each other, especially in terms of interests. However, I will guide my children towards progressive civilization. For example, when I see my children listening to inappropriate music, I immediately stop them.

At home, I often listen to European and American music. The two older children studied classical music and also have the same hobby of listening to music. I’m not telling my children not to listen to Vietnamese music, but I won’t stop their choices and interests. Sometimes I also learn a lot from my children. Sometimes when I open the music playlist my children listen to, it sounds very good.

Every day on social networks, many different content appears, including content that is considered nonsense. What does Hoang Bach think about this?

– I think everything that exists has its own value. When social networks take over and deeply affect people’s lives, we have to accept that one thing will have another. It is impossible to ask for a “transparent” environment.

For me, if you are creative according to your thinking and accepted by society to some extent, we must respect. You can’t look at other people’s products through your own eyes and see yourself as high and them as low. This is neither necessary nor advisable.

When I was a child, I often sang parody songs very carefree and without thinking about anything. If we look at it now, it’s clear that the lyrics are very bad. So awareness is a natural development. Every day I expand my standards and feel that there are many people who just follow their standards and do not intentionally do anything bad or harm anyone.

Some people believe that as true artists, they are responsible for evaluating comments and shaping musical products. What do you think about this idea?

– If they violate the law, the authorities will take action. As for the “softer” categories, time will tell. What is valuable will exist, otherwise it will be eliminated. I think the best thing I can do is produce truly valuable products instead of attacking and denouncing each other.

Hoang Bach shared that there was a period when he used to ” stuck in place” in art and very stressed. Why?

– People say artists are often lonely. Sometimes I don’t even understand myself. The period when I joined Dad, where are we going was my hottest time. But at that time I couldn’t find a way to be satisfied with life. I want this and I want that. The collision of different desires inside put pressure on me.

I just want to make a lot of money and be invited everywhere to express myself, but I also want to have time to be creative and write. new product. There was a time when I released a product that the audience loved, but I still felt it was boring.

At that time, it could be said that I was very successful in terms of image, with shows coming consecutively, but I couldn’t arrange everything. which creates an internal struggle. But then the presence of my youngest child pulled me out of those things.

So have your internal tensions ever led to family conflicts?

– Many times I feel that being an artist’s wife is a sacrifice. Sometimes when I look back at myself, I still feel… crazy. I am aware of that, so my husband and I always have understanding.

However, it is difficult to avoid having your ego rise and the tolerance of those around you have limits. Luckily our love and responsibility are greater. More and more, we don’t care who is right or wrong because we are standing in the same boat.

As a famous person, even small things in his life are often repeated. Do you feel bothered and worried that your children will be affected by those things?

– When I accept being a public figure, I have to accept everyone’s concern. . To be honest, the audience still loves me and even mentions me.

I’m also afraid that my children will be affected by being the children of a celebrity. After participating in the program with my eldest son Dad, where are we going I asked him if he was bothered when people knew him. She said everyone still loves her and doesn’t mind at all. The baby also said: “Dad, rest assured everyone will know that I am Hoang Minh, not Hoang Bach’s son.” The child did as he said he wrote his name on the school’s Olympic gold board and came back to show it to me.

The second child is very carefree. One day, when I came to pick her up, I saw her holding a stack of notebooks and telling her dad to let her friend get an autograph. She already knew that her dad was singer Hoang Bach. Seeing the children carefree and comfortable makes me feel somewhat reassured.

As an artist, every step I take is careful, sometimes I make a little mistake, but basically I am always careful. balance between the art of work and family.

Thank you for sharing Hoang Bach!

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