Having gone through the turmoil and trauma of her first failed marriage, singer Khanh Linh now says she is satisfied and feels satisfied with her current life.
During the press conference about the music night Love Story – music night honoring the late musician Ngoc Chau – her brother, Khanh Linh opened up more about her feelings. with Dan Tri about the love and happiness of her second marriage.
“The current life is enough for me”
After the marriage The breakdown of your first marriage also made you learn from experience and correct mistakes in your second marriage?
– After my first marriage, I learned that experience for myself. is that when there is a problem, you should talk to your partner instead of choosing to stay silent. Silence kills many things. Silence leads to misunderstanding.
Because people think very often and when we are silent, everyone has their own thought in their head: Maybe it’s not right or it will go too far.
Furthermore, if you don’t speak, the other person won’t answer, and if you don’t speak, it means you won’t face each other and have a dialogue, leading to the problem not being resolved.
It feels like in the past, Khanh Linh paid more attention to her ego and personal preferences. And now, the harmony between the joy of my husband and my children is also my happiness?
– That’s right. Maybe it’s because when I started getting married, I was still young, around 22 or 23 years old. At that time, I was quite calm and not stubborn. It’s just that because I’m still young, I will put work first.
Now for me, family is always the top priority. Because after many years of constantly working and thinking about work, now I feel that my children need and really need me. I’m afraid that when my child is older, I won’t know how to talk or communicate with him.
So this is the time I think I need to make harmonious adjustments and the family will have to prioritize. more than work. I think whether a family is peaceful or not depends on mutual support.
When the family is peaceful, happy and stable, husband and wife will see that their work will go smoothly. run. Women really need this peace.
Like Mr. Tuan Hung shares the time after When you get married, you will wake up or people call it awakening for your family. We cherish and spend time with our children’s childhood so that when they grow up, they will have beautiful memories of talking and playing with their parents?
– Usually During Tet, my children will not stay at home but will go out with their mother to go on a spring trip with the family. I always create a private outdoor space for my children so they can experience and do things that other children do.
Then when he grows up he can sit and talk to his friends and say: “Oh, in the past, I always went out and didn’t stay at home. I don’t care about lucky money” for example.
Normally children like lucky money, right? But my children are not like that. They will ask “Mom, what Tet will he go anywhere to play? ” means they will have a childhood.
What about love? Do you feel satisfied and satisfied now?
– I feel very satisfied and satisfied. Living in a literate life is enough for me now. The only thing that’s not enough is how to sing more of the things you like.
But people still say that if an artist’s life is too full and peaceful, he won’t have it. many sublimations in art. What do you think?
– Each person will choose a different style. People choose something fierce and strong while I will sing with a gentle and gentle positive energy.
In my opinion, each person chooses their own space and space, not everyone has to be like the storm, so where can you find gentle peace?
Do your children live with you and your husband?
– She lives with her mother.
In married life, family matters And who will do the housework?
– My husband and I will split it up, now we have a machine to wash the dishes. Cooking depends on me or my husband and maybe even my older friends.
Actually, I’m not a skillful person and I don’t think I need to prove myself. Having the ability to cook well when I am completely incapable of that. As long as your spiritual life is happy, that’s the most important thing.
So your husband and children are still happy about that, right?
– When the whole family comes together in the kitchen and contributes to preparing a meal, it will definitely be more fun than a tray of rice with only one person cooking.
Just like my grandmother and mother, if I stay at home and keep doing the same job, it will be very boring because a house is not built by just one person.
My oldest friend is close to her. Is your husband?
– The father and son often talk to each other because he really needs his father’s advice because they are men and I am a woman. Anyway, I won’t be able to completely know how a man will handle things.
When you first fall in love, your husband will take a lot of time to get to know and connect with you. My sister’s child?
– Luckily, my sister’s child is quite healthy.
The factor for me to choose a companion is that it must be in harmony with everyone, but I cannot choose someone who does not love my child.
” I’m always proud to be Mr. Ngoc Chau’s sister”
When mentioning Khanh Linh, people remember the “hit” that once made waves Co Tam today by Ngoc Composed by Chau. Ngoc Chau is not only a brother but also a person who greatly influences Khanh Linh’s musical path and musical personality?
– My brother is the one who gives me value Musical aesthetics give me confidence and independence, and like him, I also like to study music. Anh Chau is my first music producer. He is like my first music teacher. Now when I think of him, I still remember his gentle smile, his gentle and humorous voice.
In 2022, when Mr. Ngoc Chau passed away, I felt like I had lost a career master and a fulcrum to confide in. Share joys and sorrows in life. This was a big shock for the whole family.
The 8x and early 9x generations all had youth captivated by the sweet and clear energetic songs of musician Ngoc Chau such as Spring Whispering Today’s Spring Afternoon of Co Tam If That happened… At that time, wherever I went, I could see people playing Ngoc Chau’s music. As the younger sister of such a talented musician, do you feel pressured?
– I choose to be a singer, but if I were a musician, I probably would (laughs). Just joking, I don’t have any pressure and I’m always very proud of Mr. Chau.
Thanks to your success, my family has a singer Khanh Linh of today.
In “Love Story” by singer Tuan On February 14, she will participate as a guest. It is known that the music night devoted an important part to honor the late musician Ngoc Chau – her brother. How do you and your family feel?
I am extremely touched by Mr. Tuan Hung’s sincerity. I’m also very happy to be able to sing my brother’s songs at the tribute concert with the artist. There are many of Mr. Chau’s brothers who have known Linh since childhood. Now sharing the stage is something worth appreciating.
During the music night, I will sing 3 songs, all composed by Mr. Ngoc Chau: Ngan Co Tam’s Spring Afternoon poem today.
I will recreate Ngoc Chau’s spirit through his works. This is also the first time I have performed a duet with Mr. Tuan Hung. I think this is a very respectful night of music that Mr. Hung gives to my brother.
Thank you for the conversation. !
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