The first son of female artist Xuan Quynh: Mother is the ideal model

The image of female artist Xuan Quynh is closely associated with the symbol of love between her and poet and playwright Luu Quang Vu. The images of two talented and ill-fated people have been engraved. There was a bright light in the literary sky. However, there was a period of life before that when she had a family of her own with her ex-husband, violinist Luu Tuan, and her son, Luu Tuan Anh, with a Master of Business Administration. when mentioned. We had a conversation with them.

Master Luu Tuan Anh

Dear Mr. Luu Tuan, in each of us, mother is everything and when it comes to mother, it seems like it’s never enough. However, the talented and talented actress Xuan Quynh’s fate and her hasty departure along with her husband, poet Luu Quang Vu, and son Luu Quynh Tho, left behind endless grief for those who stayed behind. What do you remember most every time you think about your mother?

Everything about my mother is always in my memory. From your appearance, your smile, your voice, your teachings, and your care. Every time my mother is mentioned, I often cannot hold back my tears. I’m sad and miss my mother a lot. I always wish that my mother was still alive to repay her. She is a woman who always accepts her own sacrifices and disadvantages. Children for her are the most important things in this world and she always makes us happy and love each other.

I am Luu Minh Vu and Luu Quynh Tho ( (name at home is Mi) always consider each other as brothers. A mother’s gentle and compassionate heart has turned naughty boys like us into good and kind children who know how to live for others.

Many people often think that female poets are always romantic and that is why their responsibilities as mothers and wives are sometimes neglected… What kind of mother is female poet Xuan Quynh in her eyes? yours?

My mother is a funny person and loves her children endlessly. Being at home with my mother is always full of smiles. Mother taught us in her humorous stories. She never took matters seriously, never beat her children, and rarely scolded her, but all of us obeyed. Every time something goes wrong, my mother always gently reminds us and cleverly gives us suggestions, so we always see where we are wrong and correct ourselves to never repeat that mistake again.

Children also need to be respected and consulted. My mother always thought so and she often taught her children important things when they were still small and not sure what they understood. she said. For example, I still remember when I was just a 10-year-old boy, my mother told me: If a person’s life wants to have value, they must have a passion for something, and they must have inspiration for life, otherwise life will be like that. a dry, lifeless and dull tree. With the premonition of a mother and the sensitivity of a poet, she also had very timely thoughts.

When I was in 7th grade, my mother advised me to endure It is difficult to learn English because English is the language of the world. Even during the period when French and Russian were popular, my mother thought of letting her child learn English. My mother sent me and Luu Minh Vu to the house of a very good teacher Bui Y. He is a person with great pedagogical knowledge who inspired me to love English and have good learning methods. After finishing high school, I passed the entrance exam to the University of Foreign Languages ​​(now Hanoi University).

After graduating from university, my mother continued to guide me to enter the university. working in the press environment of Vietnam News Agency (Foreign Relations Department). After working there for 3 years, an accident happened to my mother. From then on, everything was no longer normal for me, even though everything my mother taught me was engraved in my mind, but without my mother, my young child’s life grew more slowly than my friends who rarely interacted with the outside world. I was really panicking. It took many years for my life to return to normal…

It is known that the female poet Xuan Quynh also wrote just for him. a very detailed diary of childhood. Can you share your feelings when re-reading the diary your mother wrote for you?

I haven’t even finished reading the diary yet. That sign because every time I see it I feel so sad and miss and love my mother. My mother was a person who lived her life so it was very simple to write like that. When my mother wrote about me, she also told stories about how I was when I was a child, how I ate, slept, got sick, how she worried about me… It’s like a film of my childhood, I treasure it and keep it like this. a treasure of its own.

Female female artist Xuan Quynh and her son Luu Tuan Anh.

The female artist Xuan Quynh wrote many poems for children, you must still keep many of her poems. written for yourself?

A lot of it. Memories of my mother have been a beautiful poem to me. When I was a child, I was not aware that my mother was a famous poet. I only saw her as a wonderful mother and a friend with whom I could share many stories. Of course, for any child, my mother is not wonderful, but for me she is a complete and complete world.

I find myself influenced by Mother’s personality is so great because she is almost an ideal role model. And sometimes I only have one wish that my mother is still alive so I can repay her before she dies. I haven’t done anything to make her happy.

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Never. Because I understand my mother too well. In this story is a child and I don’t blame anyone. Because my parents are two different worlds. If two people’s personalities don’t match, they break up. Better yet, trying to stay together and creating bad impressions is not the optimal solution for children. The most important thing is that after they broke up, they still maintained a very good relationship.

My mother and my aunt Dong Mai always strive to go Find my father a wife. As for my father, he loves Luu Quynh Tho even more than he loves me. My father fixes her guitar strings all day long. The day she passed away, my father cried for several days straight. Even though my parents broke up, my mother never let me feel emotionally disadvantaged.

I still remember when I was in my second year of college. 3 My mother gave me a few coins to spend or go out with my girlfriends. One day, my mother was washing my jeans and still saw money in her pocket. She was so worried that she asked all my friends: “Is there a problem with your son? He doesn’t spend money and doesn’t have a girlfriend!”. At that time, I was very stupid and only liked to shoot birds and steal fish (laughs), but I didn’t even know how to love. The money my mother gave me was not spent, but the day I craved watermelon, Minh Vu and I went to buy a watermelon and we ate it all. After eating, I couldn’t walk because I was so full…

My mother always worried about giving her children such small things. Sometimes I think my mother loves her child and sacrifices for her child too much. My mother hardly has time to rest. One time I came home from school and saw my mother carrying water from the 1st floor to the 3rd floor and had to stop halfway up the stairs to breathe because she was tired. I grabbed it and carried it for my mother. But my mother loves her child and spends time helping her study, so she does it all alone. Mom’s hands are numb from carrying water.

Even though she did everything for me, she never told me how much she did when I was little. At that time, everyone was poor and miserable, but I never saw my mother complain about poverty or suffering. She has her own solution to make her children feel most comfortable when they are near her.

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Uncle Vu is a very responsible person towards his family. family. When my mother had not yet given birth to Mi, sometimes when she received her royalties, my mother, Minh Vu and I would ride our bicycles to go on picnics. We are children and love to go out and play. I also like Luu Quang Vu’s poetry, especially the two songs “That song is still unfinished” and “White clouds of my life”. His poetry is full of profound philosophy.

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I also set criteria for myself but that is impossible. Because my mother is a special person and there can be no second person like her. My wife is now also a family woman and loves her husband and children. It was a coincidence that when she graduated from university, she wrote a thesis about Xuan Quynh.

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Violinist Luu Tuan (First husband by female artist Xuan Quynh):

“Quynh is a smart and witty woman. To me she is a talented and beautiful person. Before she was a wife Our husband is a colleague, she is a dancer and I am a violinist. We have many beautiful memories at the Music and Dance Theater and have had tours abroad Being together is fate. I know part of my fault is that I blame myself first and blame others later.

When we were together, I was the one who only cared for others. The family let her focus on writing. Partly because I like to take care of others and take care of my wife and children, but partly because my job is just that, I can’t work part-time.

So I still remember when I met Xuan Quynh, no one asked: “Quynh, have you measured the rice yet?” but instead asked: “Quynh, do you have any new poems yet?” “. I also encouraged her to go to Nguyen Du Writing School to make her career brighter. And clearly her life turned around when she left her dancing career to pursue a literary career. She once encouraged me to read hard and study more, but I wasn’t interested in studying.

Some people also asked me why I quit Xuan. When Quynh was so young, she stopped walking. Quynh and her sister also went to find a senior physician and a very beautiful 10th grade homeroom teacher for me. I think the pain is still weighing heavily on the couple who just broke up. They can’t think only about the immediate future, thinking about their son who hasn’t entered first grade yet.

Raising my child from 1st grade until entering the University of Foreign Languages, I did everything by myself, going to the market and eating. When I graduate from college and get a job as a civil servant, then it’s time to call it a day. Because in the singing and dancing troupe, many couples broke up and their children were “bad guys, bad guys”, I thought: “If I, as a father, let my child not be the right person for me and marry someone else in the future, if there will be nothing in the future, then I’m ugly.” Very embarrassing.

Even though we broke up, we still live in the same building in Hue Street, so Xuan Quynh still takes good care of Tuan Anh. In this matter, I have to Admitting that Quynh is a very good mother, she left her husband but did not leave her child. Thanks to her care, Tuan Anh is not disappointed because she can make all kinds of toys for her child meticulous in details, but Xuan Quynh takes care of all the psychology, personality, and work direction.

It is thanks to her feelings that Xuan Quynh has touched Luu Minh. Vu coldly had to call out “Mom Quynh” so that the three children could stick together without any distinction between wearing extra clothes, one child patched the head and the other. Luu Quang Vu is also a decent person As an actress, I get a few kilos of sugar, a few kilos of meat, a few cartons of milk, and I have some training. Quynh sometimes brings a dozen eggs, one carton of milk, one day roast meat…

Life is full of mysteries, but in the end fate took her away. I’m almost 80 now and look back at how fast life has gone by, now I live for my children and grandchildren. I still think she always follows our every step on this journey…”.

 According to Tran Hoang Thien Kim< /div>

People’s Public Security