If you don’t try, you won’t know if your husband is still single”
The service of testing a lover (testing a lover’s heart) is blooming on social networks. Appears on Tiktok Hundreds of videos with the phrase “#test lover”. Each video has from a few dozen to hundreds of thousands of views.
On Facebook, there are also many “Test lover” groups with thousands of members. The person shared that she wanted to test the love of her boyfriend, girlfriend, and life partner.
Vu Thuy Ngoc (27 years old, Hoang Mai, Hanoi) was in her 5th month of pregnancy as soon as she found out lover testing service Ngoc spent 150,000 VND to ask a young girl to test her husband’s fidelity.
Ngoc shared that during the time they fell in love and then got married, she did not see any signs from her husband. However, during this time at home, she was thinking a lot. The couple did not dare to be “close” much, so she wanted to see how her husband was feeling.
Ngoc’s husband is a banker. The customer had many social relationships, so she was even more worried. The first two days, she was secretly happy when the “tester” (the person who accepted the test service) announced that her husband was very “solid” and could not exploit anything. He also replied that he did not want to waste time in aimless relationships.
However, on the third day, with the young girl’s sweet “flirting” words, her husband seemed to have given up. He was shaken.
He openly talked and said he was still single, even agreeing to have coffee with a strange girl if he had the chance. Upon receiving the test results, Ms. Ngoc was sad and disappointed in her husband.
After celebrating her 25th birthday with her boyfriend Ngoc Mai (Xuan Truong Nam Dinh), she also used this special service to see if she decides to consider a hundred years or not.
Family Mai has two shops and her economic conditions are quite good. Mai is pretty, so she is pursued by many boys.
On her last birthday, her boyfriend married her. Organize her a surprise party. The boy even cried in front of her.
“However, because we are both local, I know a lot about my boyfriend. He once made a mistake with his ex-lover, so I still want to Let’s try to please him” Ngoc Mai said.
Ngoc Mai then paid 2 additional fees so that the service recipient, in addition to “flirting”, also made a final appointment with her boyfriend to go to a motel. Let her catch her red-handed right from the door.
The girl Thu Huong bitterly said: “If you don’t try it, you won’t know that your lover is still single. He’s even willing to come over.” night with the other person in the style of a one-night stand.”
After spending 200,000 thousand to use the service, Huong decided to break up with her boyfriend without regret.
“However Of course, not all boyfriends or husbands are weak. Many people, when I texted and chatted, were flatly rejected.
They said they had a lover and a girlfriend who didn’t want them. asking to chat with strangers. There are also people who say they don’t want to fall into online scams, so they block contact,” said Ngoc Linh – a person who tested someone else’s love.
Young girl This person said that he took advantage of the 3-month summer vacation and “tested” nearly 60 men. She uses realistic and sexy mature images so it is easy to “appraise” her true nature. The service price that Linh offers is 50,000-90,000 VND for the lover test and 130,000-150,000 VND for the husband test.
On social networks, many people also posted articles accepting new services. this batch. The fee to be paid ranges from 50,000 VND – 200,000 VND. However, there are also people who accept free testing.
From the information provided by customers such as Facebook account, profession, hobbies, a few places they have visited… the person who receives the testing service will be satisfied. proactively text and chat to invite them to go out for coffee or even spend the night.
The person being tested is said to have failed the test if they say they don’t have a lover who agrees to go out and meet them. or flirting in return.
The service brings more “consequences” than “results”
Related to this strange service specializing in Love and dating expert Vu Nguyet Anh (CEO of Rudicaf) said that information about love scams and money scams on forums related to love and dating is appearing more and more, so many people feel that “trust” is a problem. something extremely luxurious in today’s romantic relationships.
Too many stories of funny and sad situations that have happened in reality are told by the owner or spread through personalities. related objects.
Those who witnessed the “intimidation” unintentionally implanted a constant vigilance and suspicion towards their lover/spouse/husband in their minds. And of course, as the level of risk increases, the greater the fear, the easier it will be for potential services to attract them.
“In general, I guess this service is aimed at people who are ” “Desperate people” are struggling and struggling in doubt and trying to hold on to the relationship or there are even people with “extra money” who want to “try for fun” said Ms. Nguyet Anh.
According to this expert, if someone has to spend money to use the service to test their lover/spouse, it proves that their relationship with the other person is at an alarming stage in terms of trust and affection, which they need The first thing to do is reconsider your relationship before losing money on this service.
Next, each person can ask friends and relatives around them to help them feel and observe their lover/ spouse through communicative behavior before having to hire someone else to check the other half’s fidelity.
According to Ms. Nguyet Anh, this service is not necessarily reliable or effective. effective but also has the risk of breaking up the relationship if the other party finds out. The other person didn’t do anything wrong, but he was disappointed and hurt because he was “tested”.
For the person who “went for the test”, determine their mindset and if they “investigate” something, they will respond. How to act so that I can truly be proactive. Each person should not let themselves be influenced by real situations leading to uncontrolled developments with unfortunate consequences.
“I think anyone who is alert enough will understand that a relationship that has reached the point where they are always suspicious and wary of each other and have to hire people to investigate, monitor and test… should not continue anymore,” the expert promised. dating analysis.
This expert also emphasized: “Trust is always one of the most important factors that comes first when talking about the foundation of a happy, healthy relationship.” and sustainable.
So in a love relationship, if you discover that you are being guarded and doubted to the point of being “tested”, of course anyone will feel disappointed and self-conscious. .
However, looking at it from another perspective, if the person “being tested” is loving and tolerant enough, they can also understand that for some reason they are doing things for their lover/spouse/husband. I’m insecure and worried. So is there any way to improve that?” “psychological syndrome” needs further professional treatment.
When a person is truly peaceful and happy, he or she will only focus on his or her life and hope for good things. for others and at the same time choose to “forget” those who have hurt or treated you poorly.
What if you are still filled with hatred all day long and constantly “scheming”? To destroy the happiness of others in any form, it shows that they still have too many hurts and resentments that need to be healed.
(Names of victims The item in the article has changed)
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